So my mums birthday is in July and I’ve planned to scatter her ashes at a place she loved. Right now she’s at home with me and the kids and as much as I want to set her free a massive part of me is dreading her birthday because I don’t want to let go. I thought getting an ashes necklace and keeping some would help but it hasn’t I still dread it. How do I get over that? I guess up until now all of the things that happen have been way out of my control, this is the first part of grief I’m experiencing that is a choice. Advice welcome as I’m so torn

Posted by Eleanor at 2022-04-27 07:31:40 UTC