Hi, I haven’t written anything for a while. I am 14 months in after the loss of my husband to brain cancer. I have done so much - adopted two rescue dogs from Spain who are my world, left my job to take time out, change and future proofed the house, been on 3 holidays etc.eHowever, this week I felt like I had flu like symptoms and thought it was covid - it wasnt. I have realised that there person I forgot about in all of this was me I stopped doing things that I liked to do - I need rest and I need to stop being hard on myself. Now it is time to deal with it - it doesn’t matter whether the house isn’t cleaned every two weeks. It doesn’t matter whether I don’t get up until 8 am. I am finding that chunking my day and doing la little and often is starting to help the healing process.
Posted by lynndielou at 2022-08-05 12:27:10 UTC