I don't know if it's just me but has grief made you highly sensitive, irritable and less tolerant towards people? Has it also changed some of your relationships? I have been having a rough week because I am still feeling emotional and upset from the weekend. My friends suggested meeting up and I thought it would be a good distraction but I soon regretted it. I know one of my friends has had a difficult relationship with her sister and hated her growing up but I didn't think she would bring it up when we met. I couldn't help but feel more sensitive and miss my sister even more (my sister was killed in a road accident in March). My friend then said she and her sister had been doing group counselling together to repair their relationship and recommended I do the same and meet her counsellor. How would this counselling be relevant to me? My sister is dead. And her counsellor only specialises in relationship counselling 🤦🏻‍♀️ Also when I tried to share a fond memory of my sister, she changed the conversation topic and made a snide remark about her sister 🤦🏻‍♀️ I decided going forward to keep my distance from her. Maybe it's me being overly sensitive but I think for now I just need to put myself first and be kind to myself xx

Posted by Mei at 2022-05-25 10:17:20 UTC